The Black woman’s guide to thriving in law

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Make your mark with these essential strategies courtesy of legal marketing specialist Christianah Babajide


Navigating the legal world as a Black woman presents unique hurdles, from subtle biases to overt discrimination. However, it is evermore possible to thrive in these spaces than it was years ago, thanks to the progress made in diversity and inclusion efforts. In this guide, Christianah Babajide outlines key strategies to empower Black women in legal environments.

“My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive.” — Maya Angelou

Know your worth

Research has shown that ethnic minority women continue to be underrepresented in senior leadership positions across organisations, creating a lack of Black female role models. This lack of diversity at senior levels impacts decision-making and organisational culture, affecting the lives of Black women. Consequently, Black women may receive less career advice and have limited access to formal mentorship and sponsorship programmes. This can make navigating pivotal moments, such as biased performance reviews or promotions, challenging.

As a Black woman, it is crucial not to let these obstacles hinder your ability to advocate for yourself. If you don’t have a role model at your firm whom you can turn to for advice, consider seeking support from someone at another firm or connecting with other Black women on LinkedIn through active groups and networks that provide a safe space for women of colour.

Find your tribe

Navigating the corporate culture in law as a Black woman can present unique challenges, particularly in male-dominated and predominantly white environments. The daily experience of being the only person of colour in a boardroom meeting or at work can feel isolating and overwhelming.

However, the journey to success does not have to be solitary. Seek out mentors and allies who can offer guidance and opportunities for growth. Connect with other Black women in the legal industry through networks like; She Leads for Legacy, Black Woman’s Law Network, Black Women in Law, The Woman of Colour Blueprint, WCAN, etc. Joining professional networks specifically tailored to Black women in the legal industry can open doors to mentorship opportunities, career development resources, and job prospects. These spaces serve as platforms for sharing knowledge and advocating for diversity and inclusion within the profession.

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Embrace authenticity

Embracing authenticity in the workplace is fundamental for Black women, who often resort to code-switching to fit into predominantly White spaces. Code-switching, as highlighted in recent research , is commonly perceived as necessary for professional progress, yet it takes a significant psychological toll. In addition, studies have shown that Black women believe wearing their natural hair to interviews will hinder their chances of getting the job because it is deemed as unprofessional and thus they tend to adhere to the ‘European look’ through a weave. If hair is about identity and pride for Black women, what happens when they are forced to cover it up? This pressure to conform to predefined norms ultimately contributes to ‘Black fatigue’.

Therefore, it is critical for Black women to seek out law firms and sets that value authenticity and embrace individuals that express their cultural identities, be it through hairstyle, clothing, or food choices. Such employers understand that being authentic fosters trust and credibility among colleagues and lays the foundation for genuine connections and a more inclusive work culture. Like Paul Davis said, “Go where you are celebrated.”

Always remember that no one should have the power to dictate how you present yourself professionally. You should never feel compelled to conform to standards that make you uncomfortable. You have the right to be yourself unapologetically; do not allow anyone to dilute your sense of identity. Being a Black woman is a true joy and privilege.

Challenge Biases 

Expanding on the difficulties Black women encounter in legal settings, it is important to recognise the subtle biases and small acts of discrimination they often face. Even though efforts are made to promote diversity, Black women can feel pressured to represent their entire group in the workplace. This expectation can be overwhelming and tiring for them, leading to feelings of being alone and not being fully valued.

One common problem is when firms rely too much on the only Black person in the room to give insights on diversity issues. While this person may have valuable experiences to share, it is not fair to put all the responsibility on them. Instead, firms should provide diversity training for everyone, that teaches about concepts like unfair subconscious biases, understanding different cultures, and how to be inclusive leaders. Such training can educate everyone in the firm on how to challenge biases and foster a fairer workplace, whilst alleviating the burden placed solely on the Black individual.

Sọ̀rọ̀ Sókè

The phrase “sọ̀rọ̀ sókè,” which means “speak up” in Yoruba, is a reminder to take action, especially when facing challenges at work. If you are experiencing unfair treatment or noticing differences in how people are treated based on their background, it is important to speak out. Encouraging Black women to speak up helps them recognise the value of their voices, whilst helping to create an environment where everyone is treated with respect and fairness. In the famous words of Fannie Lou Hamer: “If you don’t speak out ain’t nobody going to speak out for you.”

Christianah Babajide is a legal marketing expert. She can be found on LinkedIn and her Instagram handle is @christianahb_.

20 Comments

Anonymous

As a person of colour in the legal industry, I find this very concerning (to the extent it covers ethnicity, I think there are actual issues which specifically prejudice women which need addressed yesterday). At the risk of writing my own dissertation (I can’t, I have billables to meet), I will try and keep it brief but there a couple of things. It seems to me that being a minority, in this country and by consequence the legal industry, is just a stat. Nothing more. Not a privilege or a burden. Does that mean there aren’t accounts of discrimination? Of course not. But to say that it is a life of discrimination is wrong. If anything, positive discrimination seems to be the new culture. I hate HR coming to the firm and picking people to participate in photoshoots for whatever reason but making sure there is a ‘token person of colour’. That is not what I am here for.

Also, the idea that no one can dictate your professionalism is wrong. We have general British standards of professionalism and those should be adhered to. It is a cultural thing, not discriminatory. If management decide on the specifics, using common sense, you should go along with that.

In any case, I hope to have a well regarded legal career because of my talents, hard work and respect for others. Things I have, to some extent, control over. I certainly will never be practicing as a black solicitor, just a solicitor. Things like having biases, I don’t understand. People are different. People are interested in difference precisely because it is different. I would rather someone take genuine interest in me at work to include me than to not at risk of offending me.

If we focus on the inclusion part, and that involves including yourself, then things like diversity will come naturally and not feel forced – certainly, don’t just find your “tribe”. When it is forced, divisions in office views/behaviours grow because people are put into different groups. I feel we are at a point where if I say you can’t understand my life so don’t bother challenging me, that is not useful to anyone – including myself. If there are cases of genuine discrimination, then do speak out but if it is because you are struggling with the culture then I struggle to sympathise. (I also don’t like the term “white spaces”, I would be offended if I was in the café with black colleagues and it was described as “black spaces”, this is not America in the 50s).

Anonymous

Thank you for the insight – sobering

Anonymous

Taking some of these problematic comments in turn:

“(to the extent it covers ethnicity, I think there are actual issues which specifically prejudice women which need addressed yesterday)”
Translation: (white) women’s issues are worthy of respect and consideration. Black women – not so much.

“It seems to me that being a minority, in this country and by consequence the legal industry, is just a stat. Nothing more. Not a privilege or a burden.”
I disagree. I’m immensely proud to come from a group of people that withstood so much abuse (from slavery, colonialism, racism etc), I am a proud descendant of those people. I am proud of our different cultures and traditions. I could go on. It is a privilege. I recognise that being black also carries the burden of being discriminated against in many contexts, and that is extremely challenging.

“If anything, positive discrimination seems to be the new culture.”
Lol

“I hate HR coming to the firm and picking people to participate in photoshoots for whatever reason but making sure there is a ‘token person of colour’. That is not what I am here for.”
I hate this too, but that’s the least of my concerns in the grand scheme of things.

“Also, the idea that no one can dictate your professionalism is wrong. We have general British standards of professionalism and those should be adhered to. It is a cultural thing, not discriminatory. If management decide on the specifics, using common sense, you should go along with that.”
This is such a dangerous idea that is used to disqualify anyone who does not present as posh, polished and white as unprofessional.

“In any case, I hope to have a well regarded legal career because of my talents, hard work and respect for others. Things I have, to some extent, control over.”
what is it about this article made you feel that the writer and those who agree think otherwise?

“I certainly will never be practicing as a black solicitor, just a solicitor.”
Being black is a fundamental characteristic that shapes a black solicitor’s experience so what’s wrong with recognising that? Black people are not the ones who created and majored on this race construct in the first place.

I would rather someone take genuine interest in me at work to include me than to not at risk of offending me.”
who wouldn’t? why is this relevant to this article?

“If we focus on the inclusion part, and that involves including yourself, then things like diversity will come naturally and not feel forced “
How come equality and inclusion hasn’t just happened naturally over the past decades? Interesting how you also seem to blame black people for being excluded.

“certainly, don’t just find your “tribe”.”
Why not? What’s wrong with seeking out those who understand you without having to explain too much?

“If it is because you are struggling with the culture then I struggle to sympathise.”
do you really need someone to tell you what’s wrong with this statement?

aye

It’s people like you with common sense that makes this country great for all.

MC associate

I think a lot of the above advice champions a perverse form of self-segregation, which is (a) not going to help anyone “thrive” in law; and (b) undos a lot of the work which has been done over the last few decades to break down biases.

In particular, I think the suggestion that people ought to “find their tribe” and look for mentors from the same racial background is quite disturbing. Determining your social and professional networks on the basis of race seems fundamentally bigoted as well as pointless – not only are you fostering groupthink (which is particularly dangerous when it starts to valorise a sense of persecution), but you are losing the opportunity to meet people from different backgrounds who can add a great amount of value to your life.

I also fundamentally disagree with the idea of “embracing authenticity”. Law firms are professional environments designed to deliver results and generate profits, and they do so by having a uniform, singular culture – one which has worked for centuries. Whilst all lawyers undoubtedly “have the right to be yourself unapologetically”, that doesn’t mean that others need to accept you unapologetically, and it can breed a mindset of hubris and entitlement.

Anon

Genuinely confused about what it is about this article that encourages self segregation? The article does not encourage black female lawyers to only associate with other black female lawyers. The article does not say that black female lawyer should not engage with clients or colleagues that don’t share the same background. The article simply suggested that it would be beneficial for black female lawyers to also get mentorship from those who share the same characteristics so are able to relate with them and speak from experience.

When white women join infinity groups for women, and seek membership from more experienced female colleagues is that also perverse self segregation?

When white women were pushing back on notions of professionalism being male centric and encouraging women to not feel obliged to confirm to male professional standards, did you have the same sentiment that they did so at their own risk? That others were entitled to shun them? Did you think that stemmed from a sense of hubris and entitlement?

This comment is a prime example of why it is essential to have mentorship from people who understand you and are able to relate to your experiences. It also demonstrates why law firms statistically exclude those who come from the nontraditional white and privileged background, despite the aggressive marketing (aka lip service) pursued by law firms on the subject.

US firm anon

Of course you would find the concept of “finding your tribe” disturbing. If you look how I am assuming you do, you won’t have the faculties to even imagine what it is like to navigate a career in a firm where at a senior level there isn’t a single person of the same racial background as you. If you are able to recognise why it’s important for women in general to have access to female mentors in senior positions, then it really shouldn’t be too difficult for you to extend some empathy in this context. Alas, we live in the UK where so many of you seem to believe that POC haven’t endured race related challenges since the Abolishment of slavery in 1833. Perhaps I should lower my expectations.

Anon

It’s very telling that you felt so strongly about this benign article to write this long winded comment which you could have summarised by saying “if black female lawyers are struggling then it’s their fault.”

In the first sentence you do that classic thing people do of giving recognition and credence to the issues faced by women (subtext: white women), and then you go on to dismiss any race or ethnicity related issues.

I can see why you say you struggle to sympathise, you seem to totally lack any empathy or sympathy for black women.

Overall your comment is so incredibly tone deaf and ignorant. If you are a “person of colour” as you say, then I’m sure your views are generally aligned with the likes of Kemi Badenoch, Suella, Priti Patel & co.

Be your authentic true self :)

Is there a correct homogenised view a person of colour should subscribe to here?

Please share. I am trying to learn to be my authentic true self, but fear I may have the wrong opinions.

I despise this narrative that suggests my authenticity and uniqueness depends on independent, free thought. This is simply wrong. We need to unite, in our own separate spaces, to become even more authentic and avoid contamination of thought that leads to people going astray (like those you mention – Badenoch, Suella, Priti Patel and co.). People need to learn to be themselves and not harm the cause for others by taking opinions that clearly cause harm (and personally to me great offence and anxiety).

Anon

Sorry I thought you were opposed to authenticity and espouse the right for other people to shun you for being true to self? Or do you just prefer it when management only does that, using “common sense” of course?

Concerned, again...

I just don’t go about my life putting people into groups and assuming they are all the same with the same issues, whether I fit into that group myself. Don’t think that makes me a right-winger as such. Everyone is different.

I empathise and sympathise with people who are in genuine struggle, regardless of sex, colour, height or anything else you want to divide people into. I don’t see people of colour as people who struggle, though individuals might do. Dangerous to think that being black is some prerequisite for struggle.

Anonymous

Indeed. Cultural marxists have hijacked the struggle against inequality of opportunity and mutated it into an ugly new form of tribalism. Suddenly, if you do not agree with the self-proclaimed thought leaders of the Black community, then you’re rejected and marginalised. That is as racist as anything else we have known in history – reducing your mindset only to your ethnic/gender identity. Shameful, considering the proud heritage of the UK in winning over Soviet-style collectivism.

Anonymous

‘Find your Tribe’…? This radical ethno-centric culture has gotten out of hand. I have close friends who, like me, are Arab and Christian. Neither of these characteristics is obvious. We are light-skinned and speak with a neutral accent. I have lost count of the amount of times we gave been shunned in conversations among other minorities UNTIL we disclosed our ethnic origins. Then, magically, everybody in this diverse crowd is up in smiles. How is that appropriate? The last thing I want is to be given a job or offered friendship/conversation just because I was born in X country/Y ethnicity.

Ironically, light-skinned Christians from the Middle East are among the most persecuted people on the planet. Yet, in the estimation of the neo-intersectionalists, we don’t fit into the ‘tribe’. The same goes for white Balkan people subject to 500 years of Ottoman brutality – nobody cares!

Marxist theories on race are among the most exclusionary I have seen.

aye

From a white male christian, who is not from this country and therefore lacks the networks, perfect accent or 100% of the customs or social nuances, thank you for your insight.

Confused

Did you actually read the article? The whole part about “find your tribe” is about seeking mentorship from people who know what it’s like from experience. What’s so radically ethno-centric about that? No one is advocating for socialising only with those who look like you

Mr Five Per Cent

This is pure racism. Imagine creating a “white” or “Asian” person’s guide to thriving in law? By definition, it’s exclusionary and should not be allowed.

Anon

I wish my experiences of “pure racism” were limited to ethnic minorities publishing self help articles about how to thrive as a minority in a particular space.

Albs

You miss the point.

White people thrive in law already.

Critical thinking

Where black women face unique challenges at work (they do, see the racism scandal we’ve seen on LC last year with a major firm) it is absolutely appropriate for them to share their experience to (a) help each other (b) raise awareness and (c) feel heard. This is not exclusionary of anybody else. It does not say other ethnicities should not seek to “thrive” at work. This particular article focuses on a set of challenges that is specific to one particular group, and allowing for the sharing of this information without the unsubstantiated backlash in these comments is necessary in a pluralist society, which the UK, constitutionally, actively seeks to be.

Critical thinking officer

People are allowed to associate with whomever they please, including people from a similar background. This is consensual, and many spend part of their time doing this because it helps them feel supported. It is not “tribalism”. It’s not “segregation”. Segregation is where there is an attempt to separate e.g. ethnicities forcibly and in all aspects of life. The “black women entrepreneurs coffee chat” you feel so conveniently threatened by does not remotely amount to this. And it’s incredibly rich that the LC comment section that was just the other day raving about how gentlemen’s clubs are a fair expression of this right of association, with no reference to proportionality or context, is now purporting to take the opposite view when it comes to black women.

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